Foreplay is very important to the overall sexual experience between two people, it can start with a phone call or text before you are even together. It can start with a great meal prepared with sensual intentions. It is all about the details and the passion that you show to your partner.
This may seem like more of a prelude to any action for guys, but many of you don’t realize that women get their greatest erotic pleasure from frequent, passionate kissing. A lot of women can gauge how good a guy is in bed by how well they kiss. For example, if you’re going to thrust your tongue in her mouth and just let it lie there like a dead fish, she’s pretty sure that you’re not going to be too great at going down on her.
Fingers will introduce some penetration into the mix and will really send her over the edge, making her hungrier than ever for your you-know-what.By this time, she’ll probably be begging you to fuck her already, but keep her on edge by placing one or two fingers inside and begin pushing and pulling in and out slowly while rubbing your thumb on her clit.
Granted, a lot of men hate to go down on a woman, but if you want your cock sucked, you’re going to have to need to reciprocate. Yes, the clitoris is the obvious place to focus your attention, but it’s still easy to concentrate on the wrong areas. Most men don’t realize that direct stimulation of the clitoris can actually be painful, and it’s better to rub the clitoral hood or rub along the sides of it than to go directly for the head.
The clitoris reacts best when being teased, so you want to suck and lick on it a little to build up her tension, and then back off it a bit before going back in for seconds.
Many girls love to play the prude and never admit that they watch porn, but the truth is, we love it. While some women may pretend that watching porn before sex is odd, between you and me – porn is an exciting and efficient way for you to get her all worked up without really having to do any of the work. Porn is a great way to heat things up and get her in the mood –while you’re both watching you can lean over and start kissing her to get things started. You might even want to try recreating some of the scenes with her to really add some spice
Women love dirty talk because we’re all extreme fantasists, and guys love to talk dirty because they love the sound of their own voice! So if you’re confident enough to talk dirty to her, you should start before you even get into the bedroom – get her turned on by sending nasty text messages prior to your date.