Oral Sex (Fellatio)

Oral Sex (Fellatio)

Learn how to give the best oral sex ever, your man will appreciate it more than he can tell you.
Start by kissing him on the lips passionately, move down his body to his penis with small kisses on the way down there, but don’t go there yet….now…Hold his penis with one hand and rub the head of his penis over your face and your lips. It’s a hot move that shows him how excited it makes you to go down on him.

Give him pecks or open-mouth kisses along the shaft of his penis and the head. Now slide your mouth down the shaft and back up, slowly to start. Get him warmed up with a few in and outs….now twirl your tongue around the head a couple of times, hold his penis with one hand gently and the other on his body.

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Sensitive areas

To make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive – the tip of his penis, his testicles and his perineum – the secret spot between the testicles and the anus.

He’ll also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer to blowing his load.

Use your Hands

If your partner’s penis is on the large side you may find it more than a mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but don’t worry – you’re not expected to be able to take it all the way down.

A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together – which will feel good for any size of penis.

Use an edible lubricant or some spit to get things going moving and move your hand from the shaft (bottom) to the tip until he’s really hard. Then add your mouth, taking him in as your hand moves up and down.

Involving other areas

Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too.

Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. Lightly kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line between his anus and testicles). All added together he’ll be totally under your control – a total turn on for you too!

Hot and cold

Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.

Temperature play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around your mouth and swallow then take your man’s penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same. The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.

You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.

Add Flavor

Some women can’t bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex rather less enjoyable.

While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a flavored lubricant – Durex do a good selection.

Ejaculation

When he starts to come, there’s the question of whether to swallow or not. You don’t have to: each to their own.

If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable for him. Just make sure he withdraws in time.

Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.

Some men like to come onto, bellies or other parts of their partner but make sure you’ve agreed to this first – it’s entirely your choice.

Of course you can swallow too – which brings us onto the subject of taste…  add some flavor with whip cream.

Overcoming Fears

Some women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and don’t like the idea of putting their partner’s penis in their mouth, it’s not for everyone – the idea is to both get turned on from the experience.

If it makes you feel more up for it try having a shower together as part of foreplay so that you can nice and clean before you get dirty.