Oral Sex (Cunnilingus)

Oral Sex (Cunnilingus)

For Her…..

She loves the attention and you need to be patient….

Warm her up by touching and licking her inner thighs, breathing naturally so she can feel your breath on her clitoris and on the other areas of her vulva. This will help build up anticipation, making her want more as you prepare to lick her clit.

Then, once you’re ready, begin licking her like an ice cream cone, in long, thick strokes that cover the entire area and be creative. Let your licks gradually build up in intensity before focusing on the clit completely.

Once you have reached a certain rhythm, try mixing things up (though you should remain mindful of how she’s responding to your touch; if she’s finding a specific rhythm or touch particularly pleasurable, she may never forgive you if you suddenly change course)

What else should you do next? Use your lips to kiss her most intimate parts, alternating those particular kisses with smooches stomach, thighs and where ever you like at this point.  The gentle motion will feel incredible, especially if you can still manage to continue using your tongue inside the wet areas.. Blow softly across her skin, teasing her with the new sensation. Don’t be nervous about trying  different approaches when giving her oral sex.

A skilled cunnilinguist is really appreciated. But if you’re not sure exactly what motion she likes then just press a flat, still tongue against her vulva and let her do the work. It’s the cunnilingus(oral sex) equivalent of letting her get on top.  If you like you can ask her to sit up on your face and let her show the motion that she likes, works for a great orgasm every time.

Someone once said,  cunnilingus is “a delicate dance — and she’s leading you.” If you are not getting the reaction that you think should be happening, continue to mix up your technique or ask her because great sex starts with communication and comfort. If she’s showing signs of arousal, PLEASE DO NOT STOP!

As you become more comfortable with the techniques above, you can even consider investing in a vibrating tongue ring, in order to pack some extra punch down below. But, honestly, you don’t need anything but your warm moist tongue to make it happen over and over again. You just need to be patient and follow her lead.